2 Jun

Thank you for taking this journey with me as I unload my experience for this date. If this is the first time you are reading along, I am posting my online dating experience with my first white man and he happens to be from Sweden. Well, as I left off in the first part of my first date, He took my hand in his and I melted. I kept my cool but I knew it was something about this guy that just made all thoughts about the past guys I dated  including my unforgettable ex, very much forgettable. Was there a specific time frame given for falling in love? Well, I wasn’t falling yet but I was darn nearly close to it. lol.

While we interrogated each other, I could fill my wine kicking in. I started to giggle and knew OMG I’m “nice”. Looking in his face, I was totally into his facial hair. Okay, no judgement here but I felt like I was on a job interview. I wore this one piece green silk jump suit, brown blazer and camel heels. He wore a black sweater, blue jeans and sneakers but some reason still came out looking proper. We talked about our families and how he was looking to move to Brooklyn. And yes I scream in my head ” Yes!” The more we talked about our past we realized we had so much in common. He never let my left hand go, by the way. There was a group of people sitting beside us that left and he took that as an opportunity to grab one of the free chairs to sit closer to me. Can you say smooth?

He asked me how I like my Rose wine and I said it was really good. He asked to taste it.  (I thought wth, this white guy is dead serious) Because the mood was cool I let him taste, he liked it and offered for me to taste his beer. I told him I have never tried beer and I thought to myself, hey, so I took his glass and sipped. (I know you’re like WHAT lol don’t judge me) It was bitter and not my kind of drink. He laughed with me and picked up my right arm in both his hands and starred into my eyes. I began to blush and looked away for a second. When I looked back at him he brushed back my hair (Braids, yes I had box braids) away from my face and kissed me. Not on the cheek, guys. We were displaying some serious PDA(public Display of Affection), he gently held the side of my face as we kissed. Guess I found out that he was indeed a good kisser. Well I’m grown! We ended up leaving after he paid the bill. We walked out the lounge and he held my hand. I’m not the type who likes to hold hands but I was okay with holding his hands, strange, especially since this was the first day we met. We looked like this wasn’t new at all.

We were passing a 3 story house and he said, well this is where I live. I said, “oh wow that’s close”. I didn’t think nothing of it until he asked if I wanted to come up……. For more on my first date please be sure to follow my blog and subscribe.



  1. gina June 2, 2014 at 6:05 pm #

    I feel as though im reading a book but I do hope it has a good ending, I like how you left out the kissing part when you told me the story you sucka mc

    • HaitianBarbieK June 2, 2014 at 6:09 pm #

      Awwe thank you and lol had to leave it for the post. . Stay tuned for part 3 😉

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